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What’s Important?

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The Book Kahuna and his Corgi, Derek!

The Book Kahuna

I was recently involved in a business conversation that was put on video when one of the participants started to ask me about my “Naked Blogging” Campaign. She wanted to know how deep into my own psyche I was going to delve to come up with pertinent topics to pass to my audience.

I thought about this question introspectively. I wondered what I could tell my readers that would make them understand who I am, why I work in publishing, and why I so desperately want to give back to the people within this industry and the authors who want to write for this industry.

At this point I am 52 years old.  I’ve been married once before and now I am not. I had a long-term relationship with a woman who passed away from Ovarian Cancer. I had another long-term relationship end recently after we had been engaged for four years. I’m reaching the point in my life where some of the goals that I wanted for myself are slipping away, and that’s okay.

Growing up I knew that I had a great father. I had an equally great mother, but knowing what kind of man my father was made me realize that I could also be a great father if given the chance. I didn’t marry until I was 35 years old, and that marriage ended in divorce four years later. We had been talking about children and I was fully prepared to be a father. I was ready to love someone so much that I would give part of myself to them to make another human being. I would sacrifice everything in my life to make sure that child grew up to be a wonderful part of the American dream. Even after my marriage ended I still had hopes of finding someone who might love me and want to be a parent with me within a loving family environment. I’m not the easiest guy to get along with, but I do have some qualities that are wonderful for parenting skills.

I realize now that my calling may not be to be a parent, but to be a mentor of sage advice to those who want to know about the publishing industry. My parenting skills can be utilized as teaching skills and refocused to aid those who need a hand up to live a happy productive life. It’s not life changing or life-threatening to write a book or to work in the publishing industry, but to be a help and possibly put someone on the right track for success is as admirable a goal as any for an individual.

My figurative “children” are those people I can reach and help along the way.

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